We may include people who are easy to chat with other people. However, there are times when we run out of words. For example, in a situation like this:
Suddenly the spotlight
initially, the conversation at a family gathering to discuss about pregnancy cousin. Suddenly, a relative look at us and say, “Wow, you look beautiful now! What’s the secret?” Instantly, everyone turned towards us. We face flushed with embarrassment.
According to Jonathan Cheek, a professor of psychology at Wellesley College, Massachusetts, received praise in public could give excessive social stimulation, so that we cannot respond properly. “Praise like this can create pressure to perform better at the next opportunity,” added Cheek.
Overcome by: Be relaxed and do not think the absurd. “Avoid trapped expectations to perform better. Just to say thank you,” he said.
An acquaintance of the unfortunate death
the husband of a former colleague has just died. Time of the incident, we’re going abroad and new to hear from him every other week. My friends already came for work together, and we miss. Among the troubled sense of whether to come or call, we met him at the supermarket. Spontaneous we want to turn around, because it confused what to say. What should we do?
Overcome with: “Death is a monumental event in the life. Let us not avoid the unfortunate new friends. Move closer to him, to convey a sense of sympathy, and give emotional support,” suggested Bernardo Carducci, professor of psychology at Indiana University Southeast, New Albany. No need beautiful words. Just say how you’d sorry for him.
So the butt of other people’s anger
Shadow, he associates in the office of high-tempered and often brings problems from home into the workplace. So far, we’ve never been a victim, until one day bump into her when she was upset. What happened next: He said sharply to us for no apparent reason, then immediately left. Staying silent was our surprise and annoyance.
Overcome by: Not take it personally. “This is better than giving a similar reaction to that person,” says Jerilyn Ross, a psychotherapist from the Anxiety Disorder Association of America.
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